Elaine, you talk a lot of sense. There are situations where the woman's place is not to apologise however, such as the guy staying out all night no phone call and so on. Yes we fought over it, but I couldn't apologise because I didn't do it-I didn't make him stay out, I didn't make him cheat, or whatever else he was doing when he was out.
So sometimes the apology has to come to you, and my husband never would. Instead he would ignore me entirely for up to seven days at a time.
Sigh. I gotta stop writing about him, it's the only time I ever think about him now is writing here!
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