You've got to give more information. How old are you, and how long have you been with him? And what makes you think he's the one?
Maybe your mom has some thoughts you should consider. Although, I do agree that hating anyone is too extreme.
But overall, yes, I do think it's too harsh to cut someone off for not attending your wedding. Life is too short to have people cut out of your life that way. If in fact you know what you are doing, and you marry this guy and your mom stays away, you have to be the bigger person.
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