I need to vent.Pardon me but as i write this,i am half in tears.I am the mom of three grown daughters,23,21 and 20 years old.My oldest and youngest live in Michigan,and my 21 year old lives in Florida with my husband and i.
I am the grandmother of a beautiful,two year old curly haired little girl,whom i have never met all because my ex-MIL didn't want me to and it was a forced decision on my daughter's behalf.I would love to let her know that she has a grandma who loves her very much down in Florida.
Yesterday,i got the biggest shock of my life.But before i tell you all,i have to tell you about my oldest daughter.She is very lazy and doesn't want to work.At 23 she thinks the world owes her a lot,and therefore thinks she is better than anyone else.
She would rather sleep all day,and party all night.But wait...there is a two year old who depends on her.That cuts into her social life.
I found out yesterday that my daughter had the gall to go to court with my ex's mom,and(my daughter) terminated her rights away as Maddie's mama and let great-grandma raise her.
Now how...
i'm sorry ...i am in tears.... do you look at you own baby and tell her that you don't want her anymore?
She told my youngest daughter that she doesn't want the responsibility of being a mom anymore and would rather party.I am furious.
My ex's mom,she is a trip.She is a unfit grandmother.How do i know this?Because her son,my ex, is a convicted sex offender and isn't supposed to have ANY contact with children under 16 years old and she sees nothing wrong with letting him babysit Maddie alone before mama left so her and my daughter could run errands.
I am now beyond furious.My daughter and i don't know what to do about this.We feel that Maddie is best suited with people who will love her and make time for her.You are probably thinking that she doesn't know me,and i might not be best for her.But the baby does know my daughter and so that would not be any problem.
This is Maddie.Now how do you look at her and not want to be in her life?She is the most vivacious little girl who loves everybody she meets.