I agree bee if he had been a nice person he would have told you in the frist place.That was so worng of him and he is a dog for putting you through all of this.Never be emberasssed here bee we are friends here.I have not met you or talked to you.But i know in my heart you are a wounderful caring lady.You do what you feel you need to do to get better.We are here waiting for you.Lots of hugs
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Go get you a new purse.It will make you feel better.