Okay, I'll bite on your question. I have been married twice now.
My first marriage. I was 20 years old with a one month old son. That marriage ended in divorce because of abuse. I do think we were both way to young to get married. It was hi second and my first.
It took me many years later to marry my current husband. I have been with him for 13 years now. But only married for the last 3 years. Yes, the first marriage put a big damper on me wanting to tie the knot again. But I figure if a man can put up with me for 9 years, a son from a previous marriage, and two kids together. we had better get married before I changed my mind again.
It wasn't that we didn't love each other. In both marriages the love was there. I also believe love had nothing to do with the divorce.
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