I work daily and all the money I have is mine .I save it I had to learn the hard way with not saving money. Now I have money even when my husband doesn't .I put it aside in case me and kids need it for something, and I dont have to get it from him or he might not have it. I think in some case guyz are horriable with money. When you have a family a budget come into play and I think women have a upper hand in that.