im really sorry to hear about your situation..we all have our spending habits to take care of. im not going to be a hypocrite. ihave been spending beyond what i should be spending. maybe if you promise your husbandthis is the last big purchase you are going to make, and that you are going to sell your old bags maybe he will understand you more and be more compassionate abt it. you guys are married. your love should survive the paddington/ bag addiction problem.
ill pray for u. you're really a nice person and i think your husband sees that everyday.