Yes, phone sex is definitely cheating in my book! I believe that even having any intimate conversation (not even having to do with sex) with a person of the opposite sex is ALSO a form of cheating. One counselor called it an Emotional Affair. When you marry, you vow to share everything with your spouse, sex, intimacy, emotions, feelings, good, bad and ugly.
And I disagree wholeheartedly with the poster who said that counseling is a waste of money. If you broke your arm, you'd go to a doctor, right?
Hope they work things out.
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