yikes...what a doozy. i'll have to think about this one. the only thing i can suggest is that you do NOT write him, not even a little "hi", until he writes you first! celeste, keep that upper hand (and self-respect) if you're the least bit interested in him romantically! any guy who really knows you and how lucky he'd be to have you as his girl should be grovelling at your feet like you were a goddess!!!
in my opinion, that's the basis for a loving relationship, commitment and happy marriage! well, then again, i do grovel at my hubby's feet these days 'coz i'm crazy for him (still even after 7 yrs) but HE was the one who grovelled first, and did so as we were dating (or moreso courting me!). but i must admit that before we dated, i was the one with the secret mad crush on him for sooooo long but i was unavailable (stuck with a tyrant) and he had a gorgeous girlfriend...then miraculously we were both single and he asked me out and the rest is history! *sigh*
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