Well said, Kitsch!
I believe that one reason for affairs is that some spouses have a problem seeing their mate outside of the domestic sense (friend, parent, co-habitant, cook, housekeeper, etc) and they need someone else as a fling to gratify their sexual, animalistic base instincts. I think Hugh Grant and Charlie Sheen are prime examples!
On the other hand, I believe a marriage works well when both spouses feel love for one another in both the domestic (higher love) way and also in the pleasurable (baser love) way.
Celeste, maybe this guy is torn between the seriousness of a committed relationship with one gal for the rest of his life...and maintaining freedom of a single life and meeting countless women. And maybe he's confused too because you wore an engagement ring and still wanted to befriend another guy. Hmmm...
On a different subject, I'm pretty miffed at Izzy for having an affair with George. Poor Cassie! Izzy and George should back off of their friendship because the wife should absolutely be the best friend! Is George leaving the show?
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Originally Posted by kitsch_k
ey if this guy has a fiance he better stick to that fiance! and remember celeste..if he can do that on his fiance (engaged and still flirting around!!) he can do that to you too. just be careful whatever you decide to do.
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