Excellent point, Etali.
We will back you 100% on your decision, Kitsch! I think it's the right choice especially since you described in you own words that after you recovered from the breakup, you led a happy single life which suddenly became "confusing" when he came back into the picture. You are doing what's right for you... hopefully HE will understand that and if he cared for you, HE will also do the mature thing too.
Funny, I'm suddenly reminded of that Jerry McGuire scene when the Renee Zellweger character tells Jerry that she's ending the marriage and setting him free because it's the only thing she has control of. She realized that the basis of her marriage was part fantasy (on her part), part convenience (on his part) and mostly because Jerry did not want to be alone.
Wasn't Cuba Gooding's character terrific??? Hmmm... I think I might have to rent this one again!
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