You make a good point bagcrazy. I'm not a very 'sleep on it' person though - if I go to be annoyed I wake up feeling even more hostile. I've also experienced a lot of times where people say ''lets just drop it we'll tallk about it tomorrow' - then they forget about it, I bring it up next time I see them, and they say 'You're not still mad about THAT are you?'.
The thing is, usually I am still mad, and I'd like to come to some agreement with them so I either know that X will always be the way things are done, or whatever - otherwise I'm expecting something different, and we'll just end up arguing again next time around.
Is that really that complicated to grasp, or are people saying 'just drop it' hoping it will be forgotten and won't need discussed again?
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