Elaine summed it up very well in her first post to this thread. Kitsch, when it comes to matters of the heart you have to look out for number one. If you don't then depression and all sorts of nasties are in store.
I stayed friends with some exes. Some we started out as friends and the relationship didn't work because it was too icky and like being with a brother, but others things just gently drifted apart and we went back to being friends.
There were three however, all of whom were either violent or abusive and I made no attempts to make contact.
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