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Yes, I agree, if he is doing that then his heart is in the wrong place.
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Oh yes! And so is his thingy!  |
01-11-2008, 04:06 PM
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01-11-2008, 04:58 PM
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Honest to God, my first idiot husband did that. I went to the beach for the weekend with my sister. No big deal, but when I got the phone bill weeks later there was $90 worth of long distance numbers. I called the phone company and discovered they were sex lines. Of course he denied it over and over again..I had the phone company take the charges off as I just knew it was a mistake..Once the charges came off he admitted it. What an idiot I was. He just wanted to see what this was all about, and he was all alone while I was at the beach. He eventually had an affair and I left him. I don't like it, doesn't smell quite right.
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Look at the bright side Lila, at least he saved you the $90 before he admitted it |
01-11-2008, 05:08 PM
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Cant you catch STD's from this??
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why? and whats with the phone aunt bea...?
definitely yes! its a one way of cheating...
maybe the husband was ashamed for asking a favor...
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01-12-2008, 09:45 AM
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why? and whats with the phone aunt bea...?
definitely yes! its a one way of cheating...
maybe the husband was ashamed for asking a favor...
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I don't want to excuse his behavior but maybe anne has a point here. WHat do you girls think? Was she not taking care of her man? |
01-12-2008, 12:40 PM
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In my honest opinion,yes phone sex is cheating.If the guy wanted to spice up his relationship with his wife,he should have asked her instead of paying another woman for it.He was wrong.
But instead of her filing for a divorce which I feel is a bit too extreme,maybe she should ask her hubby to go to marriage counseling to find out why he has to have phone sex with a complete stranger.
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01-13-2008, 05:07 PM
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In my honest opinion,yes phone sex is cheating.If the guy wanted to spice up his relationship with his wife,he should have asked her instead of paying another woman for it.He was wrong.
But instead of her filing for a divorce which I feel is a bit too extreme,maybe she should ask her hubby to go to marriage counseling to find out why he has to have phone sex with a complete stranger.
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well filing is a bit rash.
how bout she simply call her husband and talk dirty for awhile since she feels less than sexy anyway  |
02-05-2008, 08:31 PM
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in my point of view it is not cheating, how can you consider such a thing that is only been done in your imagination? phone sex is just mens way to unwind their sexual frustration there no perfect person in this world everyone has its own sexual frustration and it is up to that person on how he or she will show it.
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02-07-2008, 11:43 AM
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in my point of view it is not cheating, how can you consider such a thing that is only been done in your imagination? phone sex is just mens way to unwind their sexual frustration there no perfect person in this world everyone has its own sexual frustration and it is up to that person on how he or she will show it.
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then lets make the world perfect...ok lets take this things in reality...how do you feel if you caught your wife/husband doing this?...is it ok for you?
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02-07-2008, 12:20 PM
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I don't want to excuse his behavior but maybe anne has a point here. WHat do you girls think? Was she not taking care of her man?
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just wondering what u all think |
02-08-2008, 08:48 PM
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just wondering what u all think
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I believe that you have a valid point. Maybe the Proverbial oats aren't flowing as they once did. Or maybe they don't flow at all anymore.
I truly believe that no matter how strong a relationship is, without the physical intimacy it can only go down hill, that 's why I keep my man SUPER HAPPY in the privacy of our house 
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02-10-2008, 04:25 PM
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Let me first say that I have been married for 31 years and it takes a lot to keep a marriage strong and to make it last!
Commitment is number 1 in my book. Yes, phone sex is cheating! But I certainly wouldn't automatically give up on the guy! There's a lot more to the story that needs to be uncovered.
If he is willing to admit it and talk about it then there might be a chance that he wants to make amends. People do make mistakes and if a person is committed to someone (like when you vow to love each other till death do you part...)then you need to try and work things out.
I can't really go into that much detail here but you need to look at the big picture. Do you want to end the relationship forever or is it a quality relationship worth saving? Only the wife can really say if her husband is a good man or this is only one more reason that you have to call him a jerk.
If there are children, you really need to decide if it's worth saving so your children won't be without a father. If the guy is wanting to be forgiven and make things right that says a lot.
Of course, counseling should be considered important so you can work together to find out why he felt like he needed to do that in the first place. Maybe both parties need to work on their relationship and how to get closer - physically, romantically and deepen their commitment to each other and making things work.
I hope I didn't ramble on too much. I really believe in the sanctity of marriage. Everyone goes through rough times and they can make your relationship stronger.
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then lets make the world perfect...ok lets take this things in reality...how do you feel if you caught your wife/husband doing this?...is it ok for you?
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well i guess you got a point there.... okey i change my mind it is cheating for me now. thanks for convincing me.
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02-11-2008, 01:38 PM
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then lets make the world perfect...ok lets take this things in reality...how do you feel if you caught your wife/husband doing this?...is it ok for you?
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I know I can trust my husband... he has a thing about the M word.. he only touches his unit when he has to use the toilet or when he showers daily. I know of no other male on the planet like him. |
02-11-2008, 02:00 PM
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ooh I knew a Texas boy that had much the same rules queenie. I tellya what. Whatever the boy's rules were seemed to work well in that area. I am talking IMPRESSIVE if ya know what I mean? you must have your hands FULL there queenie. Enjoy!
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02-11-2008, 04:04 PM
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ooh I knew a Texas boy that had much the same rules queenie. I tellya what. Whatever the boy's rules were seemed to work well in that area. I am talking IMPRESSIVE if ya know what I mean? you must have your hands FULL there queenie. Enjoy!
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oh, I get plenty of business since he doesn't take care of his own business. My hands are full  |
02-18-2008, 07:37 PM
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oh, I get plenty of business since he doesn't take care of his own business. My hands are full |
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