From what I can gather he's always like that. Just before I met this guy he'd broken up a relationship that had lasted several years and the girl had only met his friends once. He stayed single for a few years after that, now he's with this girl.
He always talks badly about her - drooling over other girls while he's out, and saying how this lass spends all his money, watches boring films, stops him playing games, etc. He says he'd never cheat, and he loves her, but he is dreading when she moves in with him because it will ruin his bachelor life.
Maybe he's scared that if she meets us, we'll tell her all the stuff he's said. It's true some of them are a bit nasty like that (they 'told' me a lot of stuff that my husband had already come clean about when I first met them - if he hadn't told me himself then I'd have been annoyed to learn it from his friends).
The thing I don't get is that everyone feels the need to vent sometimes, and surely 'He said he hates the chick flicks you watch and wanted to spend the 2grand you made him spend on a new kitchen ready for when you moved in on a car instead' isn't breakup material?
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