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Old 05-04-2007, 04:05 PM
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Default When Did He Meet Your Friends?

I have a lot of male friends, and most of them are very unwilling to bring their girls out to the weekly 'guy gathering'. Is that a guy thing? Its as if they don't trust their friends to behave or something.

My husband met my friends not long after we started dating. I know most of my female friends boyfriends as well, yet some of my guy friends have been dating the same girl for years, and she's never met his mates.

Does that seem odd, or is that normal?
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Old 05-04-2007, 06:44 PM
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That sounds a little strange. I would wonder what the guy has to hide if I had been dating him for a while and hadn't met his friends. It would tell me he has something to hide, or he just isn't that into me or both.
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Old 05-05-2007, 06:40 AM
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From what I can gather he's always like that. Just before I met this guy he'd broken up a relationship that had lasted several years and the girl had only met his friends once. He stayed single for a few years after that, now he's with this girl.

He always talks badly about her - drooling over other girls while he's out, and saying how this lass spends all his money, watches boring films, stops him playing games, etc. He says he'd never cheat, and he loves her, but he is dreading when she moves in with him because it will ruin his bachelor life.

Maybe he's scared that if she meets us, we'll tell her all the stuff he's said. It's true some of them are a bit nasty like that (they 'told' me a lot of stuff that my husband had already come clean about when I first met them - if he hadn't told me himself then I'd have been annoyed to learn it from his friends).

The thing I don't get is that everyone feels the need to vent sometimes, and surely 'He said he hates the chick flicks you watch and wanted to spend the 2grand you made him spend on a new kitchen ready for when you moved in on a car instead' isn't breakup material?
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Old 05-22-2007, 07:50 AM
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hmm i met my ex's friends before he met mine...the only thing i can think of is that he is keeping something that's why he's keeping his girl from the people who know him best.
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Old 07-12-2007, 07:15 PM
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I met my boyfriends friends soon after we started dating and he met mine right away. We go out with everyone all the time, well at least once a week.
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