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07-14-2007, 07:56 PM
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Would you let him/her go to see an exotic dancer?
Girls, would you let your guy do to see an exotic dancer? Guys, same question: Would you let your girl go to see the Chippendale dancers?
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07-15-2007, 11:40 PM
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Well, I don't "let" or not let him do anything; I'm his wife, not his mother.
That being said, we both agree that looking at another person in a sexual manner is the wrong thing to do.
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07-16-2007, 01:24 AM
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I can't not 'let' him go but I can give him a piece of my mind if he did!! His dad use to have a bar right near a bunch of strip clubs and the strippers would come in after 'work' and this one girl just started giving my husband a lap dance while I was sitting there. I was ready to get up and just hit her. I think it's degrading but people say it's a 'job'. Not sure how though.
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07-16-2007, 04:00 PM
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I agree, it's not my place to "let" him do anything. However, when it happened once in the past I didn't mind. He went after a night of drinking with the guys, it was someone else's idea. Afterwards, he came home and told me how disgusting he thought the strippers were and how he was so happy to have me.
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07-16-2007, 07:13 PM
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No, I wouldn't let him. He wouldn't ask me anyway, he'll do it secretly.  But I'll forgive him if ever he does. |
07-17-2007, 09:43 AM
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i think it's ok!! as long as his activity is limited to just WATCHING!! Hehehehe
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07-18-2007, 06:44 PM
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Neither one of us thinks it's necessary. He has no desire to do that, and I would be very surprised if he did.
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07-20-2007, 07:23 AM
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07-23-2007, 07:37 PM
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I will say, though, that I don't really have a problem with ****, and I have no illusions that my husband hasn't looked at it on the internet. That doesn't bother me at all. A strip joint would surprise me, mostly because he doens't go out with the guys, he goes out with me and/or the kids...and there aren't any that I know of in my area..
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07-30-2007, 02:38 PM
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my husband hasn't been since his bachelor party, and it didn't bother me one bit. If he wants to go out and oogle fake girls, then whatever floats his boat. Now, if it got to be a regular thing, I might have more of a problem with it. But I don't mind a bunch of guys getting together for a bachelor party or whatnot and going to see some strippers. |
01-01-2008, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted by kitsch_k
i think it's ok!! as long as his activity is limited to just WATCHING!! Hehehehe
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completely agree!
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01-02-2008, 11:02 PM
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DONT DO IT! dont let him go there!!!
I lost my husband that way. he ran off with some floosy!!!!!!!
Dont do it!!!! trust me on this. any man that wants to go to a strip bar is going to cause you heart ache. get out while you can. plan hyour escape out of the marraige.
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01-03-2008, 09:08 AM
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My girl actually goes to the strip club with me and she enjoys it. I love her, she is one of a kind. If you are the type of woman that feels comfortable with being with your man while he watchs other women, you are awesome.
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01-03-2008, 12:04 PM
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Back in the day, when I was slim & trim, I used to go with my husband at least once or twice a month. We had a blast! We lived in a place that had dozens of them and we had our fav's. Those girls work sooo hard, and many of them are there only to help support their kids! We've brought many of them home with us at times, and even had their kids come over on special occasions like Christmas or Thanksgiving. They are just regular people like us.
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01-03-2008, 01:59 PM
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OMG are you serious!!!!!!!!!!?????????
arent strippers dirty? I would never want one in my home, I might catch an STD from them.
Last edited by Aunt Bea : 01-03-2008 at 01:59 PM.
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01-04-2008, 12:06 AM
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OMG are you serious!!!!!!!!!!?????????
arent strippers dirty? I would never want one in my home, I might catch an STD from them.
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Actually they are very nice. I have only met one exotic dancer that I didn't find attractive. She was kind of a amazon looking girl if you know what I mean. She must have been close to 7' tall! She towered over me! |
01-04-2008, 11:42 AM
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It is best not to encourage such childisn and immature behavior in a spouse. Exotic dancing is about as silly as it gets.
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01-11-2008, 06:51 PM
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It is best not to encourage such childisn and immature behavior in a spouse. Exotic dancing is about as silly as it gets.
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Are you kidding me? Exotic dancing is EROTIC! Try it sometimes for him and just watch the results! |
01-14-2008, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted by Aunt Bea
DONT DO IT! dont let him go there!!!
I lost my husband that way. he ran off with some floosy!!!!!!!
Dont do it!!!! trust me on this. any man that wants to go to a strip bar is going to cause you heart ache. get out while you can. plan hyour escape out of the marraige.
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you know what aunt bea if a man truly loves you no matter how beautiful and sexy they are i think thats not a big problem, and you're still the apple of his eye...
AFAIK and base from what i've red from your previous post regarding to your problem, i might say that 30-50% was also your fault why your husband leave you...
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01-17-2008, 03:05 PM
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We don't "let" each other with anything. I wouldn't approve, but the decision to go is ultimately his. I wouldn't reproach him is he went, I would just tell him I didn't approve.
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01-17-2008, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted by anne022196
you know what aunt bea if a man truly loves you no matter how beautiful and sexy they are i think thats not a big problem, and you're still the apple of his eye...
AFAIK and base from what i've red from your previous post regarding to your problem, i might say that 30-50% was also your fault why your husband leave you...
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01-18-2008, 03:10 AM
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Any man would love to have a woman who would allow them to go without having to worry about attitudes when they get home. It's more about the freedom. Alot of women don't carry enough confidence in within themselves to let their mate go and see exotic dancers.
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02-06-2008, 08:08 PM
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of course not i dont approve my wife or my girl to see an exotic dancer.
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02-08-2008, 08:51 PM
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I've been with my man twice to see erotic dancers. It was ....welll lets' say interesting.
I must admit though that even I found myself somewhat aroused while there
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