I have an ex that I really have stayed connected with. It is not anything sexual but we are just good firends. In fact, much better friends than we were lovers. But, my permanent bf has problems with it. Any suggestions?
i think if ur current bf really loves u he should accept u and ur past--that includes ur ex. he should understand that you guys werent just lovers, you were also friends and that shouldnt end just because y ou are not together anymore.
They had been married for eight years. She had an affair on him, and even then he tried to get her to stay, went to marriage counseling...they have two kids. He talked to her all the time, but it was "just about the kids."
Lila42, that sucks. However, I have been in the same situation many years ago. I was living with my sons dad who has an older daughter. While we were living together they were hooking up. I
Dear Gilipsie...you never mentioned if you had children with your ex. That puts a different spin on things. If you both share kids, you've got to get along. No matter..at least be honest. You'll never be accused of sneaking behind anyones back..that makes innocent situations look guilty.