Javascript Menu by Deluxe-Menu.com

  Marketplace & Forum

Subscribe 
Search

Go Back   The Purse Page Marketplace & Forum > Fashion & Handbag Chat > Romantic Advice
User Name
Password

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 07-22-2007, 12:26 PM
Senior Member

 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 185
Default Why do people cheat?

Why do you think people cheat? Do you think they get bored of the other person or that they get lonely? I have seen many of my friends who are married or dating cheat on their significant other. I don't see what they are accomplishing.
Reply With Quote
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 07-23-2007, 08:20 PM
Member

 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 75
Default

I don't understand it. I have not nor would I ever cheated. I have been, however, cheated on..it's a huge jolt...everything you believed in and about your spouse is shattered. I think it's largely immaturity.
Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 07-24-2007, 05:38 PM
Senior Member

 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 185
Default

I have been cheated on as well. It sucks. It took me a long time to trust men again. The way I look at it is I am far better off without the person. I am not missing out they are.
Reply With Quote
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 07-25-2007, 09:32 AM
kitsch_k's Avatar
Senior Member

 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 3,914
Default

id never cheat..period..
i think a lot of people cheat because the opportunity opens up, and they are either too weak to turn their back..or just cruel and bad people.
Reply With Quote
  #5 (permalink)  
Old 07-25-2007, 10:21 AM
Member

 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 46
Default

I was married to a "serial cheat"...not fun. Thats how I started on "Handbag Crusade". Got even buying expensive handbags, shoes and jewelry. The cheater is gone but my handbags are still with me! You've got to keep it in perspective.
Reply With Quote
  #6 (permalink)  
Old 07-25-2007, 04:46 PM
Senior Member

 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 185
Default

I have heard that many people cheat because they are not getting sex or the emotional aspect of a marriage at home. If this is the case why don't people just communicate to their spouse what they feel. Communication I feel is the key to a successful marriage.
Reply With Quote
  #7 (permalink)  
Old 07-25-2007, 05:13 PM
Member

 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 46
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by lcsamano
I have heard that many people cheat because they are not getting sex or the emotional aspect of a marriage at home. If this is the case why don't people just communicate to their spouse what they feel. Communication I feel is the key to a successful marriage.
That's the problem...people don't know HOW to communicate. Can't be one sided.
Reply With Quote
  #8 (permalink)  
Old 07-26-2007, 12:07 PM
Senior Member

 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 185
Default

No it can't be one sided. I see alot of my friends who are in relationships and they are one sided.
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 01:33 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.8
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.5.2