More Women Gay Than Men

britjojo · #1 (**permalink**) 05-15-2007, 05:45 PM

I think I mentioned this in another thread-but why is it do you think? Are women just more open about their feelings, or is there something else that means that more women experiment than do men?

kitsch_k · #2 (**permalink**) 05-19-2007, 06:12 PM

hm...i will agree on one thing..women do more experimenting compared with men.

Fizz · #3 (**permalink**) 05-29-2007, 03:14 PM

I think so because with men, it's so cut and dry. Very little shades of gray.

angelthelson · #4 (**permalink**) 05-29-2007, 05:11 PM

i think we're used to seeing women being gay ( meaning doing the kissing and stuff) rather than seeing gay men do their thing =)

Fizz · #5 (**permalink**) 05-29-2007, 05:37 PM

Well, women can be more affectionate with other women then men can be with other men even if the woman isn't gay.

carebear · #6 (**permalink**) 05-30-2007, 05:56 PM

I don't know if there are more women that are gay than men. I've seen the scales weigh about the same.

Most women are more open but then so are most feminine men.

Macho men are more apt to stay in the closet in fear but I think butch women are more apt to come out and find love.

Make sense?

etali · #7 (**permalink**) 06-09-2007, 12:56 PM

I think it's just that men are a lot more hostile about gay men than women (and a lot of guys for that matter) are about gay / bi women. I suspect there are equal numbers on both sides, just that guys feel more pressure to hide it.

Just guessing though - no statistics to back it up.

Fizz · #8 (**permalink**) 06-10-2007, 11:24 AM

I think you are absolutely right Etali, that there is more pressure on men to hide it. Seems society makes it is more acceptable for women to be gay.

britjojo · #9 (**permalink**) 06-10-2007, 09:17 PM

That would certainly make sense Etali. It really does seem that of those men who are open, it is more cut and dry-they are gay not bi, which can only mean that they are unwilling to face the persecution or whatever, if they don't have to.

dreamr802 · #10 (**permalink**) 07-04-2007, 02:17 PM

women definitately do a lot more experimenting with their girlfriends and whatnot and are more open about it. Guys are very homophobic...

shainee · #11 (**permalink**) 07-09-2007, 05:51 AM

I'm not sure either...This got me thinking! Yes, probably women are more open to show how they really feel than the males. The male tend to hide it sometimes, but you can tell with their actions and the way they speak that they're gay.

Periwinkle · #12 (**permalink**) 07-09-2007, 05:51 PM

Yes, women are more open. When I was in college me and my friends were really affectionate. We'd hold hands, kiss each other and hug all the time. Guys at our school thought we were gay. Haha.

Gilipsie · #13 (**permalink**) 07-15-2007, 07:55 PM

I would like to see what the actual numbers are but of course, they would probably be slanted as there are problably more men than women who are hiding their sexuality. Isn't that sad?

Lila42 · #14 (**permalink**) 07-22-2007, 02:14 PM

I think it's just that society is more able to accept women being gay, for whatever reason. How many times have we seen women kiss on television. I remember Rosanne even kissed a woman, then there was Brittney and Madonna. But you don't see men kissing other men..

lcsamano · #15 (**permalink**) 07-24-2007, 05:55 PM

I have to agree with you Lila42. Society does seem to be more accepting of gay women. As well I think that women are more open about certain things and do experiment alot more than men.

bika · #16 (**permalink**) 10-31-2007, 02:31 AM

Ya, I have noticed it too. In our country, twice they arranged rally and at that time most gay were seen in woman costume.

Gilipsie · #17 (**permalink**) 11-09-2007, 02:49 PM

I think for women it is a trend, I think they see so many gay women that they wonder what it would be like to be one of them.

crystal1 · #18 (**permalink**) 12-06-2007, 10:59 AM

Not true what you have to uderstand is that women are actually more open about their gayness than men are. Men keep it on the downlow which isn't good at all.

Aunt Bea · #19 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:01 AM

I knew a gay person once. but she caught an STD and died.

QueenBee · #20 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by crystal1

Not true what you have to uderstand is that women are actually more open about their gayness than men are. Men keep it on the downlow which isn't good at all.

two openly gay men live across the street, they party with us and tell us the funniest things

WorkerBea · #21 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Aunt Bea

I knew a gay person once. but she caught an STD and died.

Oh that is so tragic. Tell me though was she beautiful?

QueenBee · #22 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:10 AM

I will say that I have noticed a big rise in Gay Women PE teachers.

WorkerBea · #23 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by QueenBee

two openly gay men live across the street, they party with us and tell us the funniest things

Do you ever try to get them to convert back to the dark side?

Aunt Bea · #24 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by QueenBee

two openly gay men live across the street, they party with us and tell us the funniest things

WHAT?? you mean you let them in your house????

WorkerBea · #25 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by QueenBee

I will say that I have noticed a big rise in Gay Women PE teachers.

Realy I thought that the only rises in the gay community were for gay car salesman and limo drivers and people from North of the Border

QueenBee · #26 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by WorkerBea

Do you ever try to get them to convert back to the dark side?

One of them is already a dark man honey

Aunt Bea · #27 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by WorkerBea

Oh that is so tragic. Tell me though was she beautiful?

I have no idea......I only knew her from the internet. but she was a beautiful person, and that is all that mattered to me.

Aunt Bea · #28 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by QueenBee

I will say that I have noticed a big rise in Gay Women PE teachers.

really? whats the connection there?? I dont understand....

Aunt Bea · #29 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:26 AM

Gosh your rude.

WorkerBea · #30 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:26 AM

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really? whats the connection there?? I dont understand....

The only connection that you need to know about is how you can get into her panties there deary

Aunt Bea · #31 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:31 AM

I'm not like that.

Ishwani · #32 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by XXX Peanut Butter

No they should all be sent to France with dildo hanging out their ass!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey Peanut where do you pack that dildo, I have had a few problems with flying with it in my carry-on?????

WorkerBea · #33 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Aunt Bea

I'm not like that.

Yah from what i've read our all of that

Ishwani · #34 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by WorkerBea

The only connection that you need to know about is how you can get into her panties there deary

When you say panties, do you mean those darn t-back things. I like the way they look on me but I have some chaffing??

WorkerBea · #35 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Ishwani

When you say panties, do you mean those darn t-back things. I like the way they look on me but I have some chaffing??

You need to prelube there deary

Aunt Bea · #36 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:41 AM

I dont know how anyone could wear those things. and wahts with these young girls today wearing their pants so low that their sting thing type underwear show? I think thats grosss!!

WorkerBea · #37 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:49 AM

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Originally Posted by XXX Peanut Butter

You mean astroglide right?????

I use that or KY Jelly the warming kind

RachelUMP · #38 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 12:51 AM

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WorkerBea · #43 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 01:05 AM

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I have a gay sister and a gay brother in law

Hell girl I heard you ate more

in college than Ellen DeGeneres

Ishwani · #44 (**permalink**) 12-18-2007, 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by crystal1

Not true what you have to uderstand is that women are actually more open about their gayness than men are. Men keep it on the downlow which isn't good at all.

I have had a few experiences with women that are very good friends od mine. We are all married. But I have to say women who are good friends with you it is not a bad thing to try something crazy!! Meaning a little touchy feeling and believe me it was really nice. I am not gay but I would not say no to a pretty woman who wants to be with me.

One early experience I had was in college with a gil from Grand Rapids she was kinda on the manly side but really turned me on. She could weld and was a great skier which I was both interested in. We had the best night together I think I have ever had. Even thought she was bigger than what I usually like it was incredible. We had the best time I can remember!! So don't ever look down on things you have never tried.